“The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a man's determination.” - Tommy Lasorda. Ben was born with arthrogryposis, a condition that requires him to use a wheelchair. Through the gift of song and music, Ben has found a way into the hearts and souls of audiences. Inspired by his grandfather, a gifted Gospel singer, Ben also wanted to sing and spread the Gospel. Even though he struggled initially with learning music Ben kept working hard with the help of his grandfather. Ben soon realized that he associated music notes with colors in his mind which he learned was a phenomenon called chromesthesia. Today, Ben is an accomplished singer and has released several albums and has a busy tour schedule.

What role has music played in your life?B: Music has been my companion and tool for expression. It can operate as a universal language that everyone can understand which, ultimately, brings us all closer together. But even with music meaning so much to me, I realize and admit that it is only a gift from God. God allowed us this wonderful array of sounds that weave in and out of our very being to express our thoughts, pains, happiness, and praise to the Father.

You have used a unique technique to learn music. Could you explain how that technique works?B: In the beginning, I was very much tone deaf. The thought of me pursuing a music career was a major stretch. However, after I accepted Christ, I knew I had to sing as my grandfather did before me. He agreed to help me learn and, honestly, it seemed hopeless. Hopeless until I discovered a “mental vision” for music. As music would play, I would begin to see colors. If I matched the colors I saw in my head, I’d sing on pitch. I later discovered this phenomenon is called chromesthesia, or sound-color synesthesia. Very cool!

What was your most memorable concert to date? How do you connect with the audience?B: My sophomore year in college, the chorale made a tour throughout Germany. In one particular town, we performed in a monastery. The beauty of that place and the resonance of our voices still echo in my mind today.
Connecting with an audience is all about building trust. I want people to experience something greater than me. My goal is to build intimate moments. I want them to laugh, cry, think, and believe. Believe that there is a God and He loves them.

Who is your musical inspiration?B: That’s a loaded question. Haha. There are so many people that have influenced my music. The very first was my grandfather, Jim Waites. His passion and pursuit of musical excellence are things that I will carry with me, always.

What challenges did you face during your school days? How did you motivate yourself to face those challenges?B: My school day challenges weren’t necessarily the typical ones. My friends were kind and I was granted the opportunity to participate in nearly everything. I’d say my toughest challenges were overcoming my own physical disabilities. It’s important to note that I never viewed this through a negative mindset. It was a challenge that I took on with enthusiasm and stubbornness. I made the decision to enjoy life and my family has always supported me.

What are your other hobbies?B: I love going to the movies and discovering new places with my wife. Life is an adventure, enjoy it! Video games are fun, too. ;-)

What is your favorite place to visit? What do you love about that place?B: The Great Smoky Mountains!!!! My family has vacationed there every year since I was a kid. I met my wife there! It’s a place of true beauty that displays the magnificence of God and brings me great peace.

What is your suggestion for families of children with disabilities to empower their children?B: Encourage. Encourage. Encourage. We, as people, need to be allowed to stretch our wings beyond what we believe is possible. It’s only then that we learn how to fly. We try. We fall. We get back up. We try again. We succeed!

What tips/advice do you have for those in our community who are interested in learning music?B: Get into any and every musical education program available. Sing/play at every opportunity. Also, I teach voice and would love to work with anyone desiring to sing. Shoot me an e-mail: ben@benwaites.com!

Any special message for our community?B: Hope. You are valuable and you have the ability to go far. Set your goals, make a plan, see it to the end. Life’s not easy and that’s ok. Know you have the strength to push through. I believe in you. Romans 8:28